How to Create a Cozy Fall Date Night In!
If there's one thing this year has made me appreciate more, it's date nights at home! At the beginning of quarantine we resorted to board games, movie nights and lots and lots of wine tasting 🤪. It didn't take very long for things to become redundant and boring. We've been able to go out more lately which has been nice, but it still doesn't feel safe to do so all the time, so we're still having a good amount of “date nights in.” And to be honest, we're still doing these same activities but I've been able to make them feel new and different by mixing up the setting!
I think one of the biggest keys to a great date night is the atmosphere. We obviously can't do much to change where we live, but we can change the feel of it. One of the best times to take advantage of change is during the changing of the seasons. I am a summer girl through and through, but there's just something about a crisp fall evening with the warm glow of candles and a cozy blanket to snuggle together with 🍂
Even in our limited city outdoor space, I was able to create an intimate fall date night that you can easily recreate in your yard or on your porch too!
First up, lighting! If there's just one item that you put effort into, let it be the lighting! There's a reason most restaurants are dimly lit- it creates a romantic vibe. Picture your space and think about where you can add (or take away) light. You don't want it to be too bright that it's not relaxing, but also not too dark that you can't see each other! No need to spend a lot either, a simple strand of twinkle lights and some candles will make the space feel magical ✨
Next up, create a cozy environment! By this, I mean think of the textures in the space- you'll want something nice and comfy. If it's on your couch, add a few extra pillows and throw blankets. These items can be taken outside too (like I did here) for the night. Just make sure you take them back in when the nights over if they aren't made of outdoor material.
Don't forget food! Generally date nights involve some sort of dinner, but don't think you need to go all out with a 4 course meal (unless you want to- I'm sure your significant other would appreciate it!). We honestly prefer to have nibbles, like a cheese plate, to graze on throughout the evening. Eating like this encourages conversation and enhances the relaxing vibe. A tip for making the platter super festive: try using cookie cutters to create shapes with the cheese! Oh and don't forget the wine!!
Lastly, layer with accents! This part is totally optional, but highly suggested if you want that “over the top” look. Think of items that are seasonal or just pretty. The obvious choice here was to add in fall elements- pumpkins, mums, and even a corn stalk. Just have fun with this part and shop your home by using items from different parts of the house.
There are so many options when it comes to making a date night at home a little extra special and these tips are definitely a great place to start!
